-Jess found this tag and passed it along. However, please don’t read through and think I have turned my husband into a slave! He really does offer to help out of his own free will and choice.
How did you meet your spouse?
At church. This guy I was into told me that Brian was going to be a General Authority someday. I met him at ward prayer a couple of weeks later-yeah for ward prayer!
Where did you go on your first date? And who asked who out? We went to Snowbird and rode the Alpine Slide. Then we went to Biaggi’s to eat, although I asked if we were going to Bountiful because Brian ALMOST missed the exit and wasn’t particularly paying attention to his driving, if you know what I mean! He asked me out-although I had NEVER given him my phone number! He, being the stake financial secretary had access to everyone’s numbers, so he conveniently borrowed mine. I remind him of that occasionally.
How long have you been together?
We just celebrated our first anniversary in January.
Who eats more?
Umm…even though he doesn’t look like it, and weighs less than most women-Brian knows how to eat!
Who said I love you first?
That would be Brian-and quick. Unfortunately I had a minor melt down, but got over it in a couple of days.
Who is taller? Who sings better? Who is smarter?
I agree with Jess. These are three separate questions. Brian is almost a foot taller than me. I used to sing, not so much anymore. Brian is much smarter-why else would he write talks for the governor for a living?
Who does the laundry?
It’s almost equal now. When I was pregnant Brian did a lot of it because I could not lift things. Plus, he’s just thoughtful.
Who does the dishes?
Brian most of the time. He is becoming a good housekeeper.
Who sleeps on the right side of the bed?
At our house, me. I always sleep closest to the door wherever we go so that I can escape to the bathroom in the middle of the night.
Who pays the bills?
I was glad to give that responsibility up. I just call the budget meetings. Plus, I don’t have any more money in my account now that I am not working-so that would not be very productive to have me paying the bills now would it???
Who mows the lawn?
Brian. He actually likes it! I will forever hate push mowing after years of my grandpa’s trees.
Who cooks dinner?
I do. However, during the last year Brian has actually cooked for the first time in his life. The first meal he ever made that was substantial was for Valentine’s Day last year. He spent all day-and finished at 3:30. So, I ate a slightly cold dinner as soon as I got home from work. His timing has improved over the year.
Who drives when you are together?
Brian does. One, I hate driving. Two, we make each other nervous. One of my biggest pet peeves is how Brian drives like he’s still in South America. Something that bothers him is how slow I go-so I just sit back and shut up.
Who is more stubborn?
Umm…that would not be a question if you knew me (or Brian for that matter). Of course it’s me! I asked Bri what one of my worst habits is and he mentioned something about me being as stubborn as my Grandma Millie-OUCH!
Who is the first to admit when they’re wrong? Again, that would be Brian. I have a hard time with that one. Though I am hardly ever wrong-right honey?? Why does Brian have all of the redeeming qualities on this TAG?
Where is your favorite vacation spot/places to visit?
Lake Powell for Bri. Hawaii for me; I miss it (or anywhere else tropical!). We love the Oregon coast too-especially when everyone else is there with us!
Whose parents do you see the most?
Due to geographical factors, that would be the Harman’s.
Who kissed who first?
It was Brian who made the move, but I’d have to say I had something to do with it. I went and sat on his lap.
Who Proposed? When or HOW did you know he was the “ONE”
We knew exactly what day we were going to get engaged because of timing between work trips and holidays. Brian orchestrated one of the most incredible days I have ever had. I knew he was “the one” over time. I always wanted to be with him. It helped when I just couldn’t seem to find anything incredibly wrong with him! (those who know Brian would agree-it’s hard to find something wrong with the kid!)
Who is more sensitive?
Unfortunately again we have reversed roles on this one. Brian is more sensitive than I am. I think it comes from years of working in my field that I kind of got hardened. However, have a baby and everything changes! I even cry at the television ALL the time now!
Who has more friends? We can’t go anywhere without Brian knowing SOMEBODY! He likes to stand and talk too, just like my Dad. The majority of my friends I am related to, so Brian wins this one.
Who has more siblings?
I do. Being exposed to girls is something that comes free when you join our clan.
Who wears the pants in the family? There is one leg for each of us, (though I pretend that I sometimes do).
